Helpful Resources

Books

  • The Happiness Trap, Russ Harris. Uses ACT therapy to help with anxious thoughts, overthinking, and perfectionism.

    When Panic Attacks, David D. Burns, M.D. Teaches cognitive tools for anxiety, avoidance, and fear cycles.

    Rewire Your Anxious Brain, Catherine Pittman & Elizabeth Karle - Explains the neurobiology of anxiety and gives two pathways to intervene.

    The Anxiety and Worry Workbook, David A. Clark, PhD & Aaron T. Beck, MD. A practical CBT-based workbook with step-by-step strategies to manage excessive worry, challenge anxious thinking, and build healthier coping habits.

    Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety & Panic, Barry McDonagh. Introduces a counterintuitive approach that helps you face and defuse anxiety and panic by changing how you respond to anxious thoughts and sensations.

    Anxiety Relief for Teens, Regine Galanti, PhD. A teen-friendly guide using CBT skills, mindfulness, and practical exercises to help manage anxiety, build confidence, and handle everyday stressors.

    The Worry Trick, David A. Carbonell, PhD. Explains how worry feeds on itself and offers practical CBT-based techniques to break the cycle, reduce overthinking, and regain control over anxious thoughts.

  • Set Boundaries, Find Peace, Nedra Glover Tawwab. Burnout is often boundary‑related. This book gives practical scripts and frameworks.

    Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers, Robert Sapolsky. A powerful explanation of the biology of chronic stress and burnout.

    The End of Burnout, Jonathan Malesic. Explores the societal & cultural forces behind burnout.

    The 5 AM Club, Robin Sharma. Not for everyone, but helpful if you want a structure that prioritizes.

    Feeling Good, David D. Burns, M.D. A classic CBT-based guide that helps identify and challenge negative thought patterns to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression.

    The Depression Cure, Stephen S. Ilardi, PhD. Blends research and practical strategies to address depression through lifestyle changes like sleep, exercise, social connection, and healthy routines.

    Mind Over Mood: Change How You Feel by Changing How You Think, Dennis Greenberger, PhD & Christine A. Padesky, PhD. A structured, evidence-based workbook that teaches CBT skills to manage mood, change unhelpful thinking patterns, and build emotional resilience.

    The Upward Spiral, Alex Korb, PhD. Explains the neuroscience of depression and offers small, science-backed actions that can gradually improve mood and create positive momentum.

  • The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook, Sheri Van Dijk, MSW. A practical guide to DBT skills, including mindfulness, emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness for managing intense emotions.

    Self-Compassion, Kristin Neff, PhD. Explores how treating yourself with kindness and understanding can reduce self-criticism, improve emotional well-being, and build resilience.

    Radical Acceptance, Tara Brach, PhD. Combines mindfulness and self-compassion practices to help you accept difficult emotions, let go of self-judgment, and cultivate inner peace.

    The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown. Encourages embracing authenticity and letting go of perfectionism by developing self-worth, courage, and compassion.

    ACT Made Simple, Russ Harris. A clear and accessible introduction to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, offering practical tools to increase psychological flexibility and live in line with your values.

  • Feeling Good, David D. Burns, M.D. A classic CBT-based guide that helps identify and challenge negative thought patterns to improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression.

    The Depression Cure, Stephen S. Ilardi, PhD. Blends research and practical strategies to address depression through lifestyle changes like sleep, exercise, social connection, and healthy routines.

    Mind Over Mood: Change How You Feel by Changing How You Think, Dennis Greenberger, PhD & Christine A. Padesky, PhD. A structured, evidence-based workbook that teaches CBT skills to manage mood, change unhelpful thinking patterns, and build emotional resilience.

    The Upward Spiral, Alex Korb, PhD. Explains the neuroscience of depression and offers small, science-backed actions that can gradually improve mood and create positive momentum.

  • It’s Ok That You’re Not Ok, Megan Devine. A compassionate guide to grief that validates painful emotions and challenges the idea that loss should be quickly “fixed” or moved past.

    Option B, Sheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant. Combines personal experience and research to explore resilience, offering practical ways to cope with loss, build strength, and move forward after adversity.

    Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes, William Bridges, PhD & Susan Bridges. Helps navigate life transitions by understanding the emotional process of endings, the in-between phase, and new beginnings.

    The Grief Recovery Handbook, John W. James & Russell Friedman. A step-by-step program for working through grief and unresolved loss, offering practical tools to process emotions and find closure.

    Bearing the Unbearable, Joanne Cacciatore, PhD. Blends research and real stories to gently guide readers through grief with mindfulness, compassion, and acceptance of deep emotional pain.

  • Atomic Habits, James Clear. The best book for science‑based, realistic habit change. Focuses on systems, not motivation.

    Tiny Habits, BJ Fogg. If you're overwhelmed or burnt out, this approach is gentler and builds habits from very small steps.

    The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg. Explores the science of habit formation and change, offering practical insights into how habits work and how to reshape them to support personal growth.

    Mindset, Carol S. Dweck, PhD. Introduces the concept of fixed vs. growth mindsets, showing how beliefs about ability can impact motivation, resilience, and success.

  • Parenting with Love and Logic, Foster Cline, M.D. & Jim Fay. Offers practical strategies to raise responsible, resilient children through empathy, natural consequences, and consistent boundaries.

    The Whole-Brain Child, Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson, PhD. Explains how a child’s brain develops and provides simple, science-based strategies to support emotional regulation and healthy development.

    No-Drama Discipline, Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson, PhD. Focuses on teaching rather than punishing, offering practical tools to respond to misbehavior in calm, connected, and effective ways.

    How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish. A communication-focused guide that helps parents build cooperation, reduce conflict, and strengthen relationships with their children.

    The Explosive Child, Ross W. Greene, PhD. Introduces a collaborative, problem-solving approach to understanding and helping children who struggle with frustration, flexibility, and emotional regulation.

  • Eat to Beat Depression and Anxiety, Drew Ramsey, MD. Explores the connection between nutrition and mental health, offering practical guidance on how certain foods can support mood, brain health, and emotional well-being.

    Food and Mood, Elizabeth Somer, M.A., R.D. Provides evidence-based nutrition strategies to improve mood, energy, and mental clarity by balancing diet, blood sugar, and key nutrients.

  • Attached, Amir Levine & Rachel Heller. Helps identify your attachment style and how it influences your relationships.

    Nonviolent Communication, Marshall Rosenberg. Incredibly helpful for improving communication, empathy, and reducing conflict.

    Anxiously Attached, Jessica Baum. For people whose anxiety shows up in relationships, connection, and attachment.

    The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, John M. Gottman, PhD. Shares research-based strategies to strengthen relationships, improve communication, and deepen connection between partners.

    Hold Me Tight, Dr. Sue Johnson. Based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this book helps couples understand attachment needs and build stronger, more secure emotional bonds.

    The Relationship Cure, John M. Gottman, PhD. Offers practical tools to improve emotional connection in all relationships by recognizing and responding to everyday bids for connection.

    Set Boundaries, Find Peace, Nedra Glover Tawwab. A clear, practical guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships to reduce stress, improve communication, and protect your well-being.

  • The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown. Explores vulnerability, shame resilience, and authenticity.

    Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl. A powerful book about resilience and creating purpose.

    Rising Strong, Brené Brown. This one feels especially relevant: it’s all about what happens after we fall, struggle, or experience emotional upheaval.

  • The Body Keeps the Score, Bessel van der Kolk, M.D. Explores how trauma affects the brain and body; highly readable.

    Healing the Trauma of Abuse, Mary Ellen Copeland & Maxine Harris. Gentle, simple, and extremely empathetic.

    Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma, Peter A. Levine & Ann Frederick. Introduces a body-based approach to trauma healing, focusing on how releasing stored physical tension can help restore a sense of safety and balance.

    Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving, Pete Walker. A compassionate guide for understanding and recovering from childhood trauma, with practical tools for managing emotional flashbacks, self-criticism, and relational difficulties.

    The Deepest Well: Healing the Long-Term Effects of Childhood Trauma and Adversity, Nadine Burke Harris, M.D. Explores the impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) on long-term health and offers insight into prevention, resilience, and healing.